There is a strange complexity to humans. The state of "un-grateful-ness" and the blaming game. If you are basically inadequate do not go blaming others for your own fallacy. I never in my right mind blame people for no good reason. I rather ask questions than to make statements. I prefer facts and figures to assist me in getting to the answer or conclusion which I so seek.
However, unsolicited suggestions are nice, but they may not always suit the situation.Take for example, person A is a picky individual who only wants to hang with beautiful people and will never develop deep friendship.
Person A: You should leave your hair down, you would look better.
Person B: I have an itchy rash face.
Person A: Why don't you see a skin specialist?
Person B: My dermatologist recommended I tied my hair until the rash and itch has subsided.
Person A: So when would that be?
Person B: I have no idea, but I hope soon. However, eczema comes and goes said my dermatologist.
Person A: Can't you do something about it? You look ugly at the moment.
Person B: Thanks for flattery. I will do my best to medicate myself, but the body will heal at its own pace.
Person A: So, you are an unhealthy individual.
Person B: I guess, so.
Person A: Best we do not hang out.
Person B: Sure. I respect your choice.
Overall, I do not think individuals choose to be unhealthy, sometimes these things are genetic deposition. Well, correct if I'm wrong, but medicine is not exactly cheap and people can only afford the best care based on their knowledge, their salary, and access. Even specialist are picky in who gets to be their client and who they want to go all out in assisting in such matters.
Many humans are picky lot, who destroy this planet, and rob animals of their homes. It is a sad state of affairs to see this planet filled with humans of this kind. I pray for a better tomorrow by educating others to tolerate other people's looks and feelings. So that, we can move away from such superficial interactions and focus on repairing this planet instead.